On January 1, 1996 a girl named Tanya was
born. Unfortunately, Tanya was born with thyroid cancer. Although her parents
were more than happy to have their first child, they also showed concerned
about Tanya’s future. Tanya’s parents would give her a lot of extra attention.
Tanya's parents would spoil her as a child. She would get a new toy about once
a week, and she was always babied throughout her childhood; therefore life
always seemed amazing to Tanya. Tanya knew that she was sick, but her parents
just didn't tell her to what extent. They wanted Tanya to feel her life was not
affected because of the disease; therefore, they would always seem happy around
her and always assure her that the world was a good place and everything would
be okay. Although in reality, every time her parents looked at her, they would
see their poor daughter facing problems; they knew it would be hard. The older
Tanya got, the more complicated her thyroid cancer was getting.
Tanya began to have
tests about once a month. The older she got the more familiar she started to
become with her disease and the more her knowledge increased about
it. Tanya began to have surgeries concerning her throat once every 6
months. Because of problems breathing and frequent pain in her throat, Tanya
had to make frequent visits to the doctor. Life was starting to change slowly
for Tanya. She didn't know what the real world was actually like. She was
living in a fantasy her parents made up to keep her happy. The world didn't
seem like such a perfect place anymore. She began to see defects and problems
everywhere she went. She saw people were more depressed and stressed than
happy. This was the first time Tanya saw the world from a negative aspect. The
struggle of trying to survive was overwhelming Tanya. Then one day something
happened to her benefit.
Tanya met a guy
named Michael. They started talking and eventually going out places. They would
talk on the phone all night. Tanya finally seemed to get that happy feeling
back and she remembered her dad's words, “Everything is going to be okay." Then Michael asked Tanya out on a date and they
officially started dating on November 23rd. At the beginning, Michael was just
like Tanya's dad. He would spoil her and treat her like a princess. Everything
was perfect and life finally seemed to get better. Tanya had surgery less
frequently. The doctors started to see improvements in Tanya. In fact, Tanya's
health improved as well, but nothing stays perfect forever.
As their
relationship went on, problems and arguments started to increase. Michael would
either be too busy or just wouldn't give Tanya as much time as he did earlier.
Everything just started to get complicated. From family problems to health
issues, Michael and Tanya experienced almost everything. Even though they made
up after every argument, they seemed to argue almost every day. Tanya didn't
care how much they argued. As long as they loved each other, that was all that
was important to her. Tanya believed arguments occurred between everyone, whether
siblings, parents, friends, or just anyone. Tanya believed that problems were
just temporary, but love was permanent. Because of that one belief, Tanya and
Michael kept their relationship strong. Then one day Michael did something
Tanya wasn't expecting and left her shocked.
After having been
dating for a couple years, Michael proposed to Tanya. He had been planning to
do it for a really long time, but Tanya had no idea. On Tanya's birthday,
Michael put a ring on the top layer of Tanya's cake. Speechless and shocked,
Tanya said yes to marrying Michael. Finally, Tanya and Michael talked to their
parents. Once their parents agreed, they got married. Once again, their
lives seemed to be falling back in place. Tanya went through her last surgery
done and was cured of her thyroid cancer. Tanya had ups and downs in her life,
but in the end everything seemed to be okay, just like her father had told her.
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